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Finding out about an ex
Lady_C:
This question specifically for anyone on here who is no longer speaking to their ex.
Although I'm fairly new here I'm not new to having readings. My and my ex broke up almost 6 months ago and I'm struggling to move on. I don't think psychic readings are helping with clarity (reconcilation and if he is dating) because the result have been inconsistent some say he still has feelings for me, others say he doesn't know how to reach out and some advise me to move on because he is seeing someone new.
We all know it's easier said than done, but I can see lately my obsession is getting worse. The more I get mixed answers the more frustrated I become. One of my trusted psychics (I've had readings about non relationship issues that why she is trusted) said I should reach out to my ex but move with caution and now it's got me thinking, I want to put an end to binge reading and just communicate with my ex.
We had a bad breakup which is why we don't speak although he did offer friendship but I couldn't deal with being just friends. I'm thinking of just accidentally messaging him like pretending to send a group message and include him by "mistake" to hopefully break the ice.
I think it's the only way to rid my self of depending on psychics because clearly none of them can help me.
My question is has anyone decided to open up the lines of communication rather than depend on a psychic? What was the outcome?
Even if we don't reconcile, if we communicate with time I will probably get my answer!
sawthelight:
--- Quote from: Lady_C on July 30, 2018, 04:56:55 PM ---This question specifically for anyone on here who is no longer speaking to their ex.
Although I'm fairly new here I'm not new to having readings. My and my ex broke up almost 6 months ago and I'm struggling to move on. I don't think psychic readings are helping with clarity (reconcilation and if he is dating) because the result have been inconsistent some say he still has feelings for me, others say he doesn't know how to reach out and some advise me to move on because he is seeing someone new.
We all know it's easier said than done, but I can see lately my obsession is getting worse. The more I get mixed answers the more frustrated I become. One of my trusted psychics (I've had readings about non relationship issues that why she is trusted) said I should reach out to my ex but move with caution and now it's got me thinking, I want to put an end to binge reading and just communicate with my ex.
We had a bad breakup which is why we don't speak although he did offer friendship but I couldn't deal with being just friends. I'm thinking of just accidentally messaging him like pretending to send a group message and include him by "mistake" to hopefully break the ice.
I think it's the only way to rid my self of depending on psychics because clearly none of them can help me.
My question is has anyone decided to open up the lines of communication rather than depend on a psychic? What was the outcome?
Even if we don't reconcile, if we communicate with time I will probably get my answer!
--- End quote ---
Absolutely reach out and see how he responds. Maybe just text a hello, and see what happens from there.
Don't depend on psychics to tell you what will happen...they are wrong more often than they are right. If you haven't had any communication in six months, it's probably safe to say you will not reconcile, but you never know, he might come back around when you are no longer interested. but definitely don't wait.
My experience with past POI was even though he would come back around all the time, he never changed and it never amounted to anything, even though TONS of psychics saw it turning into a relationship.
but don't keep yourself on the hamster wheel of depending on psychics for this..
So sorry you are going through this. I'm sure most of us on here can relate :(
scarlora:
I have had exes reach out to me several months after our relationship ended and I've always been nice, so I'm not sure you will get your answers unless you ask him directly. Psychics will just confuse you.
Lady_C:
--- Quote from: sawthelight on July 30, 2018, 05:07:10 PM ---
--- Quote from: Lady_C on July 30, 2018, 04:56:55 PM ---This question specifically for anyone on here who is no longer speaking to their ex.
Although I'm fairly new here I'm not new to having readings. My and my ex broke up almost 6 months ago and I'm struggling to move on. I don't think psychic readings are helping with clarity (reconcilation and if he is dating) because the result have been inconsistent some say he still has feelings for me, others say he doesn't know how to reach out and some advise me to move on because he is seeing someone new.
We all know it's easier said than done, but I can see lately my obsession is getting worse. The more I get mixed answers the more frustrated I become. One of my trusted psychics (I've had readings about non relationship issues that why she is trusted) said I should reach out to my ex but move with caution and now it's got me thinking, I want to put an end to binge reading and just communicate with my ex.
We had a bad breakup which is why we don't speak although he did offer friendship but I couldn't deal with being just friends. I'm thinking of just accidentally messaging him like pretending to send a group message and include him by "mistake" to hopefully break the ice.
I think it's the only way to rid my self of depending on psychics because clearly none of them can help me.
My question is has anyone decided to open up the lines of communication rather than depend on a psychic? What was the outcome?
Even if we don't reconcile, if we communicate with time I will probably get my answer!
--- End quote ---
Absolutely reach out and see how he responds. Maybe just text a hello, and see what happens from there.
Don't depend on psychics to tell you what will happen...they are wrong more often than they are right. If you haven't had any communication in six months, it's probably safe to say you will not reconcile, but you never know, he might come back around when you are no longer interested. but definitely don't wait.
My experience with past POI was even though he would come back around all the time, he never changed and it never amounted to anything, even though TONS of psychics saw it turning into a relationship.
but don't keep yourself on the hamster wheel of depending on psychics for this..
So sorry you are going through this. I'm sure most of us on here can relate :(
--- End quote ---
Thank you! 6 months is a long time but we are both stubborn and I'm guessing because I didn't take up this offer on friendship it's justified for him to have moved on and be less emotionally connected to me.
I already purchased two email readings before I came to this decision to reach out to him myself. I will see what they say and still try messaging him because this cycle will never end.
Cranberry88:
I would reach out with a normal message
atleast after 6 months of breaking up you will for sure get or feel the answer once he replies back.
Its safer & would certainly give you the final answer from him.
Let us know what happens.
all the best.
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