Spoilers:
It’s everyone
Instead of throwing selective few under the bus, it’s definitely all readers. I could swear up and down this psychic was accurate about 3Ps (3rd parties) for said “good” psychic to give me the run around
If you are asking then there’s doubt, and fear and here’s what I’ll say: the fear and uncertainty are real enough for it manifest. (Remember that movie Monster from Pixar where these monster scare children to create energy… it’s kinda like that. Yours fear if unchecked have the power to create it)
I do believe though you can dissipate your fears, and you are strong enough to sit thru them, and face them. I do believe there ways to go THRU your fears without the power of your fears manifesting. No matter what any psychic says or sees.
But it does take mental discipline, detachment, examining core beliefs, the daily stories we speak, and extreme kindness… plus probably more (and you can do YouTube search about 3parties and those techniques). However I want to mention something from the psychic addiction side that I think we struggle with. I read some of these posts and I see so much fear.
I know it hurts I truly do. I can relate.
The defensive argument when manifesting: Oh so this is my fault? I created this?!
Pause! This kind of mindset is coming from a fixed state of right and wrong, taking circumstances very personally, that if blaming yourself just enough then well maybe you can to fix it… OR this is my fault oh so I created this and deserved this?!!!
And this is just too complicated and wasteful. This isn’t a new idea but there growth mindset and fixed mindsets and there more YouTube psychology that speaks about this.
Fixed mindset takes challenges and circumstances personally
Growth mindset approaches challenges with willingness to accept difficulties in life. And both of these are on spectrums, flavors, and different phases of life. So before we begin AND most importantly approach this subject matter with KINDNESS AND COMPASSION TO YOURSELF. AAAND BOTH MINDSET ARE OK!!! Take the sting off and say “ok I am taking this personally from fixed state.” If you can try say this then it can create a kind of observation. And something that has proven true when you observe an outcome you have the power to change it.
Also there’s both really.
Fixed mindset: when examining 3Ps my arguments I’ve invested time, personal relationship, i share something special or thought I did and created something together, and i cannot get that time back, ABSOLUTELY HOW CAN I NOT TAKE THIS PERSONALLY … however after time and detachment from a growth mindsets I can view 3Ps as delightful stories of insecurity and growth, or comical forgetfulness… but you can heal.
My biggest exercise to take edge off is meditating and observation. I’ve been an advocate for grounding practice from Crappy Childhood Fairy. Here’s what the start of my journaling looks like:
“I have fears and resentments a 3P may exist because I fear I am wasting my time. I have resentments I am asking psychic about a 3P I fear am wasting money and I have fears I am alone. I have resentments for SP about a 3P because I fear he just isn’t the one. I have resentments of said 3P because I fear I just am not worthy… (and oh it goes on for good 1-2 pages, of shameful, hateful “stuff”).”
There are no wrong answers. Write out your fears. But the element is the same: I have these resentment (negative emotion) because I fear… (insert your fear)
Then write to God or higher power that you would like healing and would like to surrender this. And I realized about a month in this practice I had resentment towards God too.
I have resentments towards God because I fear am truly alone. Anytime I trusted higher power I’ve fallen thru the cracks I fear I am forgotten. I have fears there are no solutions to this.
So I surrendered that too, as I can.
Then I sit in silence between 10-20 min 1-2 times a day… after 2-3 weeks it was subtle but for me I noticed the panic voice in me had less power. I created a communication channel for connection to God and myself. My discernment voice came back… i felt clarity in my head. I am hesitant to share this but very unintentionally after two weeks a former ex reached out to me and apologized to me (after 10 years of silence, psychic binging) the icing on the cake: he confessed he got an astrology reading compared our astrological charts and said we were highly compatible, and I could feel his regret for leaving me for his baby mama… however after 3 weeks he re blocked me again. So, I surrendered that too, and gave this into my practice. I had lots of validation but of course hurt, so I give this too to God.
I am currently with someone and it isn’t going well. I fear we separated. I am now 7 months with this practice and I am reading “feel better no matter what” by miachel james and with my grounding mediation practice plus this I am seeing “oh yum I feel jealousy (eye twitch) awesome!” As I am getting thru week two saying “oh good I love that I feel anger and resentment about my partner. I love that I feel uncertainty about 3Ps” … I mean I don’t, but I can sit and observe this feeling more and have more compassion for myself where I didn’t. I weirdly don’t fear 3Ps, if anything I’m looking at my life experiences where I felt jealousy and judgements and feel like I need to make an amends.
And this isn’t just about 3Ps but I want to say this about FEARS. Go thru your fears, face them, only you can sit thru them. Surrender. There are other ways I am sure to go about or thru your fears. But I truly believe if you want to take the edge of a bad prediction, a terrible reading, a horrible psychic binge get to the root of what you are believing, know that most likely you are reacting from fear.
Anyways that’s my soapbox.
But I do know this: your fears if uncheck can manifest