This is going to be long. sorry for that.
Ok, i haven't updated this as I was waiting to be done with the major recommended psychics and see the developments in my life.
I have spoken with LadyP, Micah, Carla, Kisha, Cookie and Yona. Still waiting for a couple of email reading but I want to write this down.
I have realised that this might be better in "my story" section of the forum so it anybody wants to move it there it is ok.
I would like to hear your opinion and advices, but please don't judge for the psychic binge I had. I have promised myself to conclude with the last few ones and I will get updates on this again only with Yona, Kisha and Cookie in the future. Most of my readings have some similar elements but seems to get to a different distance in the future.
Kisha: She has described the present situation perfectly. I gave her only the names, no bg. She definitely has a huge gift. She sees this famous block in communication, this huge wall that I feel has grown between us (she is the one that described it better, as there is actual communication but there is also distance, most of the others have picked up the barrier but didn't realize we were still talking). She says that in in l
ate fall/early winter there will be an important discussion and the barrier in communication will be gone. It won't be a resolution but will make us move forward and will eliminate some of the obstacles in our relationship. She does
not see a renewal of the relationship in the short term but the clearing of some issues. In general she says that she could possibly be seeing a different development if we are able to change the current dynamics, but it seems to be a process that is long and will take time. She saw the third party, even if she did't go in depth with that she says that she is the most important blocker between us, and that she has an agenda, and he doesn't really see her for what she is, he is kind of blinded.
CookiePicked up the situation right away even if i asked a general. I just said what do you see coming up for me and she picked up him and the third party, described her. She says that I will need to change myself and start moving forward, letting him go. I need to let him go for him to come back. But also for me. I need to start dating other people even if none of these will be significant, change my routine, have new hobbies, and that i am going into a waiting period. At some point
between now and February he will make excuses to come to me to talk about work, and that I will find out something that disappoints me about him and the third party but it will be kind of a misunderstanding. This is going to be the sign that things are going bad between them because she is manipulative and self centered, more ballsy than me, and he is starting to realize that it was lust. This will be the first time that he gets better at communicating and I will not have to rush things from then on. She said we have a soulmate connection and that he will miss me within weeks, but won't act upon it. She sees a good outcome, but a with its time.
Yona: I really liked Yona, even just the tone of her voice was very calming. She was very clear in her delivery, not super detailed but gave me a lot of clarity. I asked for a general reading and she asked what year I was born and if I was in a relationship. No details at all given from me. First 2 cards: a man known to me already which i still have feelings for and shadow card was the world, an emotional connection and the tower, happened already. She picked up right away the obstacle, the third party, and the hanged man, telling that there are more development to come in this situation. She commented that she likes my ex, he is not a bad man, she likes what she picks up, but he is kind of an idiot
. He will get a reality check. He does not see the reality of the third party and that she manipulated him. He has not realized that she is a predator, it's not about love but about power, she has to get someone. But he does not understood what person she is, tough, ruthless, with no ethics.
Then she proceeded to read predictions that actually were in the recent past and present about my work mainly. Most likely she said that my cards will be fast. Good cards on job and life and close together. She wants me to move, and to not keep my energy static. My ex came up again and she saw a blockage in communication, but i don't need to be the one trying to open then again. I need to move forward during the time there is no communication, exploring new hobbies, friendship, routines, be more misterious, also time will pass faster. I will be dating other people but I will be emotionally not available, even if I do feel single, but my relationship with my ex is still un finished business.
By taking this course of action I will get what I want (not sure of what ahaha), an unusual combination, as I got the star and the crystal picked it up. If my energy is static then when we will have again communication I will be behind. We still have a connection, but he has not yet processed my loss. I do not have to close any more ties with him, we are still linked, he will be at a crossroad situation and he has not understood what a soulless and unpleasant madam she is, with no moral or ethics. This is going to take months, not going to be resolved quickly but it's like a book with a lot of chapters, it's a long process. They are a complete mismatch and they will absolutely break up. I am single but i do not stay single, the crystal shows holding hands.
The obstacle to communication will be removed, and we will have a discussion where we will talk in a very direct way, openly, with no diplomacy. She will be still in the picture. This is a turning point, we will touch things that matter. I will be upset in this discussion, it will be beneficial but not easy.
This is happening around a celebration (Christmas?). After that I will see him pursuing me and win me over, not as a friend and this will be the beginning of the end. This is going to take quite a long time, but I can be with him.
Lady P, as I mentioned already but I want to recap it here to show the parallels between the readings. She explained his feelings and the reasons we broke up accurately. She mentioned his issues with depression. She picked up her, her hair colour and that he cheated on me with her before breaking up with me. She is wilder, she is more exciting, she is …a bitch
She was manipulating him, and she wanted to win him, like a competition, and he fell for what she represented. He will reach out and actually communicate with me. In the meantime I have to get my power back and drive a change. She saw a 4, most likely next 4 months
(November) for a reconciliation.
Bonus: Micah said this is a break, not a breakup, and that meaningful communication will also come in a 4, and next steps before the end of the year.
Carla picked a barrier in communication and his issues with depression and sees a reconnection in 3.
QoC, as mentioned before, said that he has moved on
So, trying to analyze facts, there are different common elements in these readings:
1) The barrier in communication and us breaking it up. This big discussion, that will come. The timings given are not in contradiction between themselves, we have late fall/early winter, between now and February, close to a celebration (likely Christmas), and a 4 (= likely November). This is seen as a turning point. Kisha is the most negative one but she still sees this as an improvement, but also mentions that for a change it would need a lengthy process. Yona and Cookie also say that this is going to take months and is going to be a long process.
2) She is a bitch. Now, in a triangle like that I think that everybody would tend to say that the third party is a bitch, it is what we want to hear. I definitely never liked her, but that’s quite normal, isn’t it? However, EVERYBODY picked up her manipulating him and not being what he thought she was. Now, does this happen often that you get said that the 3rd party is a bad person? Cause I guess that it is what most of us wanted to hear.
3) Moving on seems like a safe advice. To live my life and start doing my things , get my power back. I guess that this is something that every reader says when someone breaks up because it is right to do so. Yesterday I had my first date (i don't really care about the guy, it was just for spending some time) and I am pushing myself to explore new hobbies. Moving on is definetely healthy and the right thing to do, and it is what i am doing. I won't value this as a "prediction" but as an advice that does not really need you to be a psychic to say so. For Cookie, Yona and ladyP it sounded like a WAY to get him back - like they were showing me the path to follow. And in some ways also Kisha was suggesting to "change the dynamics" for her to be able to see some solid change. Do all readers say this to people breaking up?
4) It seems all coherent with the time frames that are said in this forum these readers are able to read:
a. QoC is said to be able to pick up weeks or 1-2 months – he has definitely moved forward in the meantime
b. Kisha I read here reads around 6 months – correct? It might be that she sees until the famous discussion and only the beginning of our clarifications?
c. Cookie and Yona are supposed to be reading out for years, correct?
What do you think? I have started talking with psychic in the last 3 months, so I cannot really say which one of these readers works for me or not, and I have only asked about this particular issue. Cookie, Kisha, LadyP and Yona were definitely well connected with me and picked up the issue perfectly, but for the future I don’t know. It is interesting however that they all have these similarities.
