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Dreamer23:
Hi,

I just wanted to share with you my thoughts on why predictions may not happen and how not to feel powerless about it.

1. Psychics don't know everything and they don't get everything right. I think if you accept this as truth then you might have an easier time with predictions that do not happen.
2. Everybody has free will. So let's say that there is a high possibility for an outcome to happen, but with someone's free will, then that outcome may not happen after all. It's no one's fault...not the psychic, not the POI, not you...it's just things can change, people can make different decisions at any second.
3. This is a lesson, we go through lessons in life to grow as a soul. Maybe this is all for a purpose, all the pain, all the suffering, it's here to teach us something. Even the psychics who predicted something that didn't happen, even that has a purpose in your growth as a soul.
4. On a positive note...the future can always change, things can turn around, the psychics may actually be right but the thing they predicted may not happen in 2 months but maybe in 2 years, or 20 years. So maybe it was all true, and all these hurdles are meant for you to grow, to understand what it is to love, yourself, others, what it is to make a choice to either walk away or stay. It's all for a purpose and it will all be revealed at the right time.
5. I don't think psychics are meaning to harm us by selling fairy tales, I feel that most psychics try to help and they say what they see and feel, etc. In fact, every person is trying to do their best, including the POI that may not be in your life, they are all trying to figure things out, to make the best decisions, to contribute to the world in some way, to live their lives in their most authentic way possible.

When you choose not to blame anyone, including yourself, you feel much better. It is all a lesson anyway.

Sag78:
I prone to think I believe in destiny , otherwise what a point to call a psychic and spend money? Free will can change or extend things for some period of time , but not outcome. Btw, it is not a statement , this is just what I lean to think at the moment .

sawthelight:
I really am starting to think psychic readings are pointless...just setting yourself up for disappointment in most cases. I started getting readings to see if a certain thing would happen between me and a POI. The disappointment and heartbreak that follows when you see things going in an opposite direction is just not healthy for anyone.

Dreamer23:

--- Quote from: sawthelight on June 24, 2018, 04:47:02 PM ---I really am starting to think psychic readings are pointless...just setting yourself up for disappointment in most cases. I started getting readings to see if a certain thing would happen between me and a POI. The disappointment and heartbreak that follows when you see things going in an opposite direction is just not healthy for anyone.

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I agree, I've been through that. I think that false hope is worse than having no hope or being neutral. But I saw it as a lesson learned. I had that happen to me, where something completely opposite happened of what I was told and it was very hard to swallow. I saw it as a lesson learned and how not to rely 100% on what somebody else is saying when there is no actual proof.

So in hindsight,I felt that the hardship I went through because of that was a lesson that I had to learn, and maybe the hard way.

sawthelight:

--- Quote from: Cranberry88 on June 24, 2018, 06:45:09 PM ---I have been reading with Psychics first time in my life since May 2017, i would say that i came across almost all readers mentioned here on this forum from best to worst

He probably won’t divorce, esp if there are kids or financial entanglements. It’s a hard lesson but try to move in now, for your own mental health.

I’m with you on the religious aspect, I was raised the same way.
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