One person I asked about was more of a business context and I stated it was not romantic just needed to know how they were feeling about an upcoming project and if I could count on them, she tried talking to me about not putting so much importance on how others feel, and it not only was offputting, but also I really did need to know as this was a big work project that my supervisor will be looking at when deciding whether I got a promotion. It felt like she did not understand that I was asking about two completely different people and situations and it was as if she thought I was just in some panicked paranoid mode where I wanted to know if everyone around me hates me or something, it was really weird. Thankfully she was wrong about the coworker not putting in any effort. She was also completely wrong about whether an ex POI was serious about taking a cross country trip to see me and a mutual friend, she said he was not, but he actually did end up coming out.
I am obviously happy that she was wrong in both instances, but even if she had been right, she made me so uncomfortable I would never call again. I also noticed she keeps changing her name on Keen which is weird, why do they do that?