I just wish I had been able to see it sooner. People told me what he is like but it was so different from how I knew him to be (and different from what most readers were telling me). I just couldn't believe he could be that petty or selfish. Now I know beyond any doubt, but it just took a long time to fully see through his behavior. Even when I could see it, I didn't want to believe it. Then almost every reader was telling me oh he really he loves you, he is trying to work out his problems so he can come back. That might have been his intentions, but he never followed through or lived up to it.
There was one astrologer who told me the truth, that he would probably never be able to change, and she explained why (from an esoteric perspective, what kind of person he is spiritually.) My head was already so full of what psychics told me, I didn't know what to believe, but now I know she was right. This whole thing was such a mindfuck.
I can imagine..it's hard to realize that you were so wrong about a person....I've been there too, and I say to myself, it was right there in my face! And just because the person might have some sincere feelings does not mean that the situation is meant to turn into anything, especially the great, wonderful ending they try to convince is will happen.
My case, as well, I was getting just enough to keep me hanging on from the guy. And boy, did I hang on and on.