I'm not arguing compassion, everyone deserves that. I'm saying most of us who post here are open to conversation and dialogue. It's rarely dialogue with him - it's mostly a monologue without much response and a lot of self depreciation , and pushing back, that's what makes it weird. He's not interested in what you or I have to say. He's not even interested in what he feels , he's interested in what's scraping him but he doesn't want to hear about why he's being scraped.
Whatever, I'll be the mean girl, I don't really care. I have compassion,it's just not playing out in the same straight lines. And while i think he's 'like us with issues, I also think he's unintentionally using our fragility to stroke his wounded ego. I don't think he knows he's doing it at all, so this is not blame, I'm just calling out what I see. I do say this with love. I wish him all the best <3. I just want to kick an ass too, I'm sorry, that's just how my story unfolds <3