Unfortunately this seems to be a theme...I am so sorry for what you're going through. However, you're not the first nor the last where someone called and called about an ex or someone they're interested in and found out later they married someone else. Or was never ever coming back! Oh. My. Gosh. The picture they paint...only to find out it was all a fantasy. One you paid dearly for. Emotionally and financially. You can't believe anything they tell you ever. It's all about making you feel good, not reality. And reality is what we all need, no matter how much it hurts.
This also happened to faith and trust, a member. The ex she was calling about had gotten married while everyone was telling her different. Look up her posts.
People break up every day, and the majority never ever get back together. There is a reason. Calling keeps you in a fantasy world. I know for me, a few good readers have gotten the past...present..meh, future? NONE. Oh, a work thing here and there. Never anything on relationships. They basically turned out opposite of what I was told.
I had my shocking truth this summer and it was totally opposite of what I was told. It was like the universe/God wanted me to see with my own eyes so I could finally see the truth and let go of what I was told. Talk about a cure for my addiction!!!
It's a very costly addiction. I have been here a long time and I always tell people to read back, read all the thread that are 5 and 6 years old and see how basically nothing of any significance have happened for anyone...ok maybe two or three out of the thousands that are members here. You can also see how every few months there are new people as the older ones drop off, over and over.
I wish I could tell you something that would make you feel better. I know it's sucks. Be well
