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My Ex Came Back, After I Let Go.
star1:
--- Quote from: Still tired on November 11, 2018, 05:44:46 PM ---My point is not to disbelieve anyone when they say their ex came back after they let go. Life often works out that way. I don't believe we can "cause" it to happen though. It just happens.
Many readers do advise it as a strategy, but their ideas about what it means to let go can be very manipulative, and can actually just keep us stuck.
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That's my point, I'm not disbelieving it, I think it happens without us "causing" it. And I agree, it's a manipulative excuse from readers.. You put it in a better way than me, I'm not always good with my words.
star1:
--- Quote from: Still tired on November 11, 2018, 06:01:58 PM ---
--- Quote from: star1 on November 11, 2018, 05:56:44 PM ---
--- Quote from: Still tired on November 11, 2018, 05:44:46 PM ---My point is not to disbelieve anyone when they say their ex came back after they let go. Life often works out that way. I don't believe we can "cause" it to happen though. It just happens.
Many readers do advise it as a strategy, but their ideas about what it means to let go can be very manipulative, and can actually just keep us stuck.
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That's my point, I'm not disbelieving it, I think it happens without us "causing" it. And I agree, it's a manipulative excuse from readers.. You put it in a better way than me, I'm not always good with my words.
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You said it as well as I did, or better. I feel like maybe it takes a lot of us repeating it because the temptation to believe what the readers say can be so strong.
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Thanks, and yeah definitely. There's for sure been a sense of panic recently on the board after these "readers" coming on.
star1:
Someone else said it about themselves, but I too seem to the be queen of nothing happening. I've never in my experience had "ex exes" come back, yet others seem to be lucky (or call it what you will) when their ex returns either after they moved on or flit in and out of their life..
I seem to be the woman who gets the causal guys who are only looking for hookups contacting me, not the "ex exes". A guy I was talking to in summer was in contact with me and made it clear he only wanted one thing. I stopped talking to him because we both wanted different things and I did begin to like him, so didn't want to get hurt. I forgot about him and he contacted me just over a month later, and I only recently saw the message from him. It is a nice ego boost at first, but then when you realise straight away they're just after a casual hook-up, you think "ugh". Another guy who also wanted one thing from me (and thought he could sway my decision) made contact with me around summer after no contact of 2 and a half years just wanting a hook-up, too. Men?! :o
sawthelight:
--- Quote from: star1 on November 15, 2018, 02:41:56 PM ---Someone else said it about themselves, but I too seem to the be queen of nothing happening. I've never in my experience had "ex exes" come back, yet others seem to be lucky (or call it what you will) when their ex returns either after they moved on or flit in and out of their life..
I seem to be the woman who gets the causal guys who are only looking for hookups contacting me, not the "ex exes". A guy I was talking to in summer was in contact with me and made it clear he only wanted one thing. I stopped talking to him because we both wanted different things and I did begin to like him, so didn't want to get hurt. I forgot about him and he contacted me just over a month later, and I only recently saw the message from him. It is a nice ego boost at first, but then when you realise straight away they're just after a casual hook-up, you think "ugh". Another guy who also wanted one thing from me (and thought he could sway my decision) made contact with me around summer after no contact of 2 and a half years just wanting a hook-up, too. Men?! :o
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you're not alone, so many guys are just after one thing, and so many try to get by with no commitment..so few good guys out there. It's really hard to be single and looking for a quality partner.
star1:
--- Quote from: sawthelight on November 15, 2018, 03:02:20 PM ---
--- Quote from: star1 on November 15, 2018, 02:41:56 PM ---Someone else said it about themselves, but I too seem to the be queen of nothing happening. I've never in my experience had "ex exes" come back, yet others seem to be lucky (or call it what you will) when their ex returns either after they moved on or flit in and out of their life..
I seem to be the woman who gets the causal guys who are only looking for hookups contacting me, not the "ex exes". A guy I was talking to in summer was in contact with me and made it clear he only wanted one thing. I stopped talking to him because we both wanted different things and I did begin to like him, so didn't want to get hurt. I forgot about him and he contacted me just over a month later, and I only recently saw the message from him. It is a nice ego boost at first, but then when you realise straight away they're just after a casual hook-up, you think "ugh". Another guy who also wanted one thing from me (and thought he could sway my decision) made contact with me around summer after no contact of 2 and a half years just wanting a hook-up, too. Men?! :o
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you're not alone, so many guys are just after one thing, and so many try to get by with no commitment..so few good guys out there. It's really hard to be single and looking for a quality partner.
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Exactly, it's why I've given up on dating. So many men with commitment issues, grr.
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