Okay everyone I just read with her. I purchased a ten minute reading for $7! (She was running a holiday special) We ended up talking for much longer and she didn't charge me extra, she just went with the flow. She was very, very nice and picked up a few things on her own - geographical distance between my POI and myself - and that his job is business/law related. But here's the downside.
I was indeed "pigeon holed" and stereotyped as a desperate, delusional, gullible girl and spoken to as such. "Oh honey who told you that? Did a psychic tell you that?" She did lots of gathering backstory from me before she began which I don't necessarily take as an indication that a psychic isn't a psychic - but she really let her assumptions fly once she had info. She asked why I thought we had broken up and then she came out with "Oh he was scared? What does that even mean? I hear this all the time from women, now tell me - where did you hear this?" And I had to just come straight out and say "I didn't get that from psychics I got that from him - I know you think I'm just regurgitating what I heard from psychics". Lots of time was spent giving me condescending advice and lectures and stereotyping the situation. Since he was 24 she figured he "got bored" and "lost interest" and wanted other women? This man asked me to marry him and the day he left was sobbing saying "I'll always love you". Since it has been a year she told me "now listen honey He doesn't love you, no man goes a year without seeing someone he loves." 🙄 Which is kind of dumb because there are all these posts Reddit and the experience project written by men like "I broke up w my gf two years ago but I still cry over her I miss her so much but refuse to contact her." I'm not saying my ex cares about me at all - who knows - but it's not fair to assume that silence always indicates that someone has forgotten you.
It seems to me she is on some kind of mission, a well meaning mission yes, to empower women out of their longing for their exes. I feel as though no matter what the situation, you will get this kind of reading from her, where she tries to get you to give up the dream. I don't know how much "seeing" and "connecting" she did but she did spend a long time therapizing me and was very sweet.
