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optx888:
Hello Everyone!

I thought that I would post my story and experiences with readers on CP.

My ex and I broke up in Oct 09.  I was in love with him and I just simply adored him.  I never thought that I would ever find what I was looking for until I met him.  He motivated me in many ways and he just simply made me laugh.  I constantly had butterflies in my belly.

We had a horrible breakup.  I don't understand what happened.  I didn't recognize him.  He was so hurtful and I never understood it.  I was crushed.

I had seen a Psychic before I met him and she told me that he was coming and that he would be the one for me.  She told me this 2 years before I met him and all the way up to meeting him and I still didn't put 2 and 2 together until after our breakup.

Everyone saw him coming back.  In my gut...I just didn't feel this was over.

I was eventually turned onto CP and my first reading was with Natalie.  I just asked Natalie what was coming my way in regards to Love/Relationships and she picked right up on it and told me that she sees my ex coming back.

I had some good experiences and some bad ones here on CP...My usual girls were Natalie, Anasella, London, Winter, Ciarra...and then had a reading with Nina and Kinsey.  These eventually became my go to girls.  They all said the same thing but in their own way...Anasella, Nina, London were pretty much right on point as to the first initial contact.  (and Nina was the most accurate with tiny stuff up until May...but she isn't exactly wrong) He emailed me in November....we communicated regularly and saw each other twice in January and then he kind of pulled back and I would hear from him every 2 to 3 weeks and mostly about hockey.

I added some more readers to my list...Kelli, Jacqueline, Jean, Seha.  Again...they all see the big picture and were correct in their own way...but timing was off. (and then I had a horrible reading with Kelli...ugh!)

Others that I have read with only one time sees us together...but I just wasn't wowed enough to read with them more than one time.  And then I had some horrible readings that were just terrible and that I don't want to remember.

I have my doubts with CP.  I don't think there is a data base...but when reading some of the testimonials on here...I feel like most of us are in the same boat...but how many of us are given false hope and how many of us are being told the truth?  I don't think they have enough time to write notes etc and share information.  If that is the case...then why when I have tried some...they ask too many questions and repeat your answers and how are some so wrong with information (for example...seeing that I am divorced or seeing kids...I have never been married, have children, or dated anyone with children or divorced lol)

I feel like the 1st big prediction happened...and that was him contacting me...and then the 2nd big one happened...and that was us seeing each other in January...but just little things have happend since then and I feel like everything is either on pause or in neutral or actually I am not even sure.

Him missing my Birthday was huge and has changed things.

I have narrowed down my list of readers.

Anasella is too expensive and I read with her now every now and then.
Nina has been the one that has been the most on point (along with Kinsey) but after my birthday she said something "special" would happen before then end of May and nothing - though there has been more communication (but hockey isn't completely over just yet lol)
Jean - she is just right to the point and calls you out on stuff and she was quick....she told me that CP doesn't want the readers to tell the callers that they do not see them together but she doesn't believe in doing that.   ???

My other doubts with CP...all my regular readers with an exception of Natalie have all said "are you wasting your time by waiting for him? no" (something along that line)

They all have told me not to reach out to him because he will reach out to me every time (and they were correct)  but Jean 2 weeks ago said "why don't you just reach out with some thing light...something cute and funny about the game?"  she told me to take some chances but to keep it light...and I did...and she was right...he would respond....communication actually picked up....to the point that I wanted to take a further chance and ask if he wanted to hang out again....but I froze...so I called Jean to see what she would say and she advised against it (i was surprised) she told me to wait for another 2 weeks before i do it because he is going through a lot (there is a lot on his shoulders) and she doesn't want me to take it personally...but i did it anyway...the response wasn't negative...it was positive...but i didn't know how to take the response and I feel like it still leaves me in limbo and that's just driving me crazy.  He responded within 15 minutes and said that "maybe we can meet up for a bike ride?"   I enjoyed talking to Jean tremendously...but this just confuses me.

I would speak with Nina...but it is so hard to get into her que now...she reduced her hours.

So in the meantime I had horrible readings with Mariposa (i was shocked...her first 2 were so great) and with Tisha.  I read some of you talking about the new reader Demi...and I am in her que and am hoping to read with her tomorrow.  I can keep you all posted and let you know how the reading with Demi goes...but in the meantime...any thoughts on his response to me about hanging out?  Am I just being a girl and over thinking it all?  :-\

cj:
sounds positive. If he wants to see you its because he obviously misses you

kiki155:
I believe Mean Jean will really tell you the truth. She's been a year off with predictions for me. But I do believe she is honest. I think she can be off if you call her too often.

bjr181:
Green-

Don't overthink it!  You asked him to hang out and he responded positively to a bike ride.  That's wonderful news.  You want to keep it light with no pressure and that's the perfect way to start.  When you go, just have fun... don't get into the past or the future.  Just keep it in the now and enjoy each other's company. 

Good luck!

optx888:
Hi!

I know BJR...I shouldn't over think it and I totally am.  And you are right...I do want to keep it light.  I don't know if I am ready to see him...but I want to...and I want to know that we are both on the same page.  And yes CJ - I do believe it is positive that he responded and that he responded quickly.  I just have to not focus too much on it.  I have been since February.  I have been doing better - but just like a normal human being I do have my moments.  I think focusing more on me and not getting readings often has really helped...but I did read with Demi this morning.

I must say that I was not impressed at all.  Jean may give advice...but it follows after the reading.  Nina...strictly does a reading and seldom gives advice...but again...it comes after the reading.  I felt that my call with Demi was more her giving advice and she kept repeating the same things.  She said that he will slowly make his way back to me but after dating more people (he has already dated 2 since we met in January and is working on a 3rd but none will workout....um...hello...this is new to me) and she said she sees us together...I asked a few questions...and I guess based on my questions she changed it...she said that he will work his way back to me but that I shouldn't take him back and he will always be this way towards me...basically looking for something better.

I don't know...I wasn't too impressed.  She said that readings and predictions change...but I was always under the impression "if it was meant to be...then it will be"  I always thought that there could be delays...but eventually will happen...no?

I am just trying not to let it get to me...I do hope that Jean, Nina, Kinsey, etc are correct...but only time will tell to see who is right and who is wrong   :-\

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