Why I stopped calling after literally thousands on that site: Every single one, and I talked to MANY, even ones with huge praise here, were dead wrong about a pretty huge situation in my life.
I was promised that my ex was coming back, he'd apologize for hurting me, he was feeling guilty for cheating on me, he would beg me back after dumping his new girlfriend ....
I started asking about this in May. I was told it was all imminent.
All wrong. False hope. He doesn't feel guilty. He goes out of his way to rub what he did in my face. And not only did they not break up, but they went to Vegas and got married, posting pics publicly and seem very happy.
It's all bullcrap. They'll tell you want you want to hear. It did not help my depression. It's worsened it.
I stopped calling once I realized the complete opposite was the case.