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Forcing Outcomes
nancy:
--- Quote from: HopefulHeart on October 01, 2017, 05:06:10 PM ---I wouldn't say contacting someone is forcing the outcome. I have found in the past that many readers have told me "I see contact" or "I see communication", but if I leave it to the POI, 9/10 times he won't reach out. If I reach out, the conversations generally go well or very well. Just because they say contact doesn't necessarily mean the POI will initiate that contact, but that there is a high chance of communication happening that day.
As for the cold responses its first of all important to remember that if we're talking texts or emails, things always come across differently in writing. Even something like the lack of exclamation points or emojis can make it seem like someone is cold, when really maybe they are just using speak-to-text, or aren't into emojis.
Your approach in a text or call when you reach out is also very important. Forgive me if I sound very blunt here but, for this to happen with 20 people where you reach out but they respond coldly, could have a lot to do with how you are approaching them/what you are saying/etc.
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Right on
HopefulHeart:
--- Quote from: dagnytaggert27 on October 01, 2017, 05:12:58 PM ---
--- Quote from: HopefulHeart on October 01, 2017, 05:06:10 PM ---I wouldn't say contacting someone is forcing the outcome. I have found in the past that many readers have told me "I see contact" or "I see communication", but if I leave it to the POI, 9/10 times he won't reach out. If I reach out, the conversations generally go well or very well. Just because they say contact doesn't necessarily mean the POI will initiate that contact, but that there is a high chance of communication happening that day.
As for the cold responses its first of all important to remember that if we're talking texts or emails, things always come across differently in writing. Even something like the lack of exclamation points or emojis can make it seem like someone is cold, when really maybe they are just using speak-to-text, or aren't into emojis.
Your approach in a text or call when you reach out is also very important. Forgive me if I sound very blunt here but, for this to happen with 20 people where you reach out but they respond coldly, could have a lot to do with how you are approaching them/what you are saying/etc.
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I don't think so... I usually get a lot of friends to screen my messages so I don't come across as needy or too strong... I felt compelled to write this after having asked someone out to the cinema last week. I was actually just being sweet and casual but I was just left on read.
I only ever feel like this happens to me when I get so impatient that I initiate the outcome and things just backfire. The times I haven't really made much of an effort things unfold exactly the way they are predicted...
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So, you're just reaching out, asking them to hang out, and even with your friends helping you to write a message, you're still being left on read? I mean, you don't have to by any means but can you give an example of what you're sending? I just can't see how every single one of them are leaving you on read unless each invite is coming entirely out of the blue or something else is happening behind the scenes.
You can ask anyone on this board, I normally don't dig into any post too much on here, but I can't help but feel skeptical about this
HopefulHeart:
--- Quote from: Still tired on October 02, 2017, 01:49:19 AM ---My guess is it doesn't have anything to do with your approach but rather the types of partners you are going for.
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This was my next thought. ( sort of what I meant by the whole behind the scenes comment).
dagnytaggert27:
--- Quote from: HopefulHeart on October 02, 2017, 12:15:19 PM ---
--- Quote from: Still tired on October 02, 2017, 01:49:19 AM ---My guess is it doesn't have anything to do with your approach but rather the types of partners you are going for.
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This was my next thought. ( sort of what I meant by the whole behind the scenes comment).
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--- Quote from: HopefulHeart on October 01, 2017, 07:11:26 PM ---
--- Quote from: dagnytaggert27 on October 01, 2017, 05:12:58 PM ---
--- Quote from: HopefulHeart on October 01, 2017, 05:06:10 PM ---I wouldn't say contacting someone is forcing the outcome. I have found in the past that many readers have told me "I see contact" or "I see communication", but if I leave it to the POI, 9/10 times he won't reach out. If I reach out, the conversations generally go well or very well. Just because they say contact doesn't necessarily mean the POI will initiate that contact, but that there is a high chance of communication happening that day.
As for the cold responses its first of all important to remember that if we're talking texts or emails, things always come across differently in writing. Even something like the lack of exclamation points or emojis can make it seem like someone is cold, when really maybe they are just using speak-to-text, or aren't into emojis.
Your approach in a text or call when you reach out is also very important. Forgive me if I sound very blunt here but, for this to happen with 20 people where you reach out but they respond coldly, could have a lot to do with how you are approaching them/what you are saying/etc.
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I don't think so... I usually get a lot of friends to screen my messages so I don't come across as needy or too strong... I felt compelled to write this after having asked someone out to the cinema last week. I was actually just being sweet and casual but I was just left on read.
I only ever feel like this happens to me when I get so impatient that I initiate the outcome and things just backfire. The times I haven't really made much of an effort things unfold exactly the way they are predicted...
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So, you're just reaching out, asking them to hang out, and even with your friends helping you to write a message, you're still being left on read? I mean, you don't have to by any means but can you give an example of what you're sending? I just can't see how every single one of them are leaving you on read unless each invite is coming entirely out of the blue or something else is happening behind the scenes.
You can ask anyone on this board, I normally don't dig into any post too much on here, but I can't help but feel skeptical about this
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Hi everyone. thanks for your responses.
I think I might not have expressed myself very well before, maybe you are right in that it may just be my approach which isn't right.
Also, 20 men haven't left me on read, it was just the last one...
I simply wanted to convey that every time I haven't just let a situation go and have fate take care of it, where I have been too impatient and initiated contact or forced an outcome, it always winds up being the opposite and things get cold and fizzle away.
Whereas in my experience where I have left things to fate and not done anything to force an outcome, it has usually occurred. I was wondering if people here had had that same experience? Where you try to force an outcome which was predicted and it ends up backfiring.
Thank you.
kandyna:
Yes i did soooo many time with my ex. Sometimes i even wonders if i was getting misleaded by readings....
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