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dagnytaggert27:
Hi everyone...

I actually wasn't sure where to post this.

I have been reading with different psychics for a few years now. The one I reach out to the most is QOC18. I usually can speak to her within a few days of when I need her.

Some days I get so confused I really do need some clarity, which is why I call her so often for a short term question. What I have found is I have been guilty of trying to force an outcome to occur, and I usually end up blowing it.

E.G. if a psychic says this person will contact me in 3 days and is very into me, when I don't hear from them I end up reaching out to them- and then always getting a cold response... This has happened with the past 20 partners I have had (I fall in love quite easily and out of love quite difficultly)

Do you feel you can jinx an outcome by deliberately trying to force it?

sawthelight:
Yes. I have done this as well....

bstalling:
Well, predictions about calls on specific days should be taken with a grain of salt. Rarely do they happen. If the person gives you a cold response, and dosent even
fake wanting to talk to you, I would question if that person is really into me. Either way, you gained more insight by calling than not calling. However, getting calls
are not ultimate outcomes---finding out if they genuinely like you and want to progress into a relation is what I consider an outcome in regards to a relationship.

HopefulHeart:
I wouldn't say contacting someone is forcing the outcome. I have found in the past that many readers have told me "I see contact" or "I see communication", but if I leave it to the POI, 9/10 times he won't reach out. If I reach out, the conversations generally go well or very well. Just because they say contact doesn't necessarily mean the POI will initiate that contact, but that there is a high chance of communication happening that day.

As for the cold responses its first of all important to remember that if we're talking texts or emails, things always come across differently in writing. Even something like the lack of exclamation points or emojis can make it seem like someone is cold, when really maybe they are just using speak-to-text, or aren't into emojis.

Your approach in a text or call when you reach out is also very important. Forgive me if I sound very blunt here but, for this to happen with 20 people where you reach out but they respond coldly, could have a lot to do with how you are approaching them/what you are saying/etc.

dagnytaggert27:

--- Quote from: HopefulHeart on October 01, 2017, 05:06:10 PM ---I wouldn't say contacting someone is forcing the outcome. I have found in the past that many readers have told me "I see contact" or "I see communication", but if I leave it to the POI, 9/10 times he won't reach out. If I reach out, the conversations generally go well or very well. Just because they say contact doesn't necessarily mean the POI will initiate that contact, but that there is a high chance of communication happening that day.

As for the cold responses its first of all important to remember that if we're talking texts or emails, things always come across differently in writing. Even something like the lack of exclamation points or emojis can make it seem like someone is cold, when really maybe they are just using speak-to-text, or aren't into emojis.

Your approach in a text or call when you reach out is also very important. Forgive me if I sound very blunt here but, for this to happen with 20 people where you reach out but they respond coldly, could have a lot to do with how you are approaching them/what you are saying/etc.

--- End quote ---

I don't think so... I usually get a lot of friends to screen my messages so I don't come across as needy or too strong... I felt compelled to write this after having asked someone out to the cinema last week. I was actually just being sweet and casual but I was just left on read.

I only ever feel like this happens to me when I get so impatient that I initiate the outcome and things just backfire. The times I haven't really made much of an effort things unfold exactly the way they are predicted...

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