Everybody was correct that he wanted out of the relationship and that he was unhappy. This specifically is his feelings about the relationship now, and how he feels about her now being out of his life, which she has been for two months.
I read with Zadalia a couple of times in February, Judi only once last December. Z. was right overall about them, just didn't get the specific information that was just confirmed - and she couldn't have gotten part of it because the third-party's departure hadn't happened yet.