Yea It really didn't make sense for my situation either. I just went back and listened to my recording of the call. She first said we need to stop arguing and i told her how we don't argue and then after a few minutes of talking she circled back to the conflict thing and said "she knows I said we don't argue but she is getting conflict" and started saying how it could maybe not be a fight or confrontation, but just be things not being a stable situation.
Hmm... she told me verbatim. I hung up on her when she started saying what she told you - "she knows we don't argue but she is getting conflict". I didn't feel connected with her because if I were to give you details about my situation, you would know how this makes zero sense in my case.
Another thing that bothered me about her was that she was talking to her child while figuring out my cards so maybe that's why she couldn't focus properly. She even told me something along the lines that she is dealing with her daughter asking for lemonade, that's why she was chatting with her daughter while reading for me. I don't mean disrespect to anyone but I am paying by the minute even if it's $1.50 and expect a reader to be more professional than that. I didn't call to know what's going on with her at my dime.
The last time i spoke with her, her daughter came into the room and made a bunch of noise and I felt christina lost all concentration. I wasnt too happy. It was very annoying.
Maybe its me, but im starting to see a trend here. It seems every week she has a new stock answer or advice, like don't reach out - she was telling quite a few this one week and now the conflict. I'm unsure of her now.
Yes that really bugged me too! Im not heartless, and I understand that children will cry, but it bugged me how much it distracted her from the reading. If it had been one time I would have let it go, but her child came up SCREAMING three times and she would completely stop what she was saying, attend to the child, apologize for her distraction, and then start saying something else. I felt like her concentration was broken. Im seeing a trend too and I dont like it. I was also really bugged by her telling me not to contact him. She went on this whole spiel about how "Im the woman, I have the vagina and we need to make these stupid men work for the vagina". I hate when readers give that advice generally. If it was a case of a reader saying "Give him a few days to cool off and then reach out" that'd be one thing (if it were a case of him needing to cool off or something. You guys know what I mean lol). But I hate when a reader tells you to sit back and wait for a guy to contact. That is just not how I roll. If I have something to say or if I want to talk to someone I am going to reach out. I'm not being clingy or needy, but if I want to reach out for conversation I will. I have also learned from past experience with my POI that more often than not that if hes being quiet he is not doing it out of malice and that he likes it when I reach out to him.
Most of the the time when I comment on here its for readings that happened last year. But I took a chance recently and got a few new readings since I had seen a lot of movement. Christina was one of those readings and I regret it. Sure she did say some stuff I liked but... seeing this trend makes me not so sure about her anymore.
