Thanks so much ilovelola, you're so right! I really think he's getting a little clearer! Spoke with him today, even though we are still arguing, we are connecting more and more. It's unfortunate because it's over stupid stuff that she does. She sent my daughter a message on facebook this morning, telling her how happy her Dad was that she contacted him a couple days ago. First off, she knows my daughter wants nothing to do with her. It was her way of meddling. I'm not so sure she wasn't doing this so my daughter wouldn't contact him, you know reverse psychology. But, she most definitely did this to cause conflict so that I contacted my husband this morning to blow up at him. She has some nerve thinking she needs to advise my daughter on her relationship with her Dad!
Cjean, Happy Birthday! I'm so sorry for what you're going through, I know this must be a difficult time.