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Updates - How's everyone doing?
AngelGuided:
So I haven't heard any updates or how any of you have been doing in quite a few days now. Please let us know what's happening good or bad? Inquiring minds want to know...kiki, pt, healer, jb, moneta, bethnation, crm, koukou, sunshine girl, etc., what's new?
moneta:
Hi Angelguided,
I am still waiting.......no new updates. Will keep everyone posted :)
kiki155:
I'm just waiting too...patiently patiently waiting...and also just trying to get on with life. I've been cleaning a lot today, trying to clear space in my house (and mentally/emotionally) for the big change to come. I "could" be hearing from him by the end of the week, but we all know how timelines work.
That was so nice of you to start this message, Angel. I've been wondering about everyone too.
AngelGuided:
That's good! I've missed hearing from all of you and what's been happening. I'm also waiting. I've had contact with my husband last week with the court hearing Monday, he returned my call on Wednesday about the deed to our house, saw him Friday morning to sign papers. He called me Friday afternoon to address our tax return after she started screwing with his head and we tried to start an argument over that, but I redirected him saying that this had already been discussed and resolved. We had already agreed to file jointly. Then, Saturday, I called him after realizing that if we file our taxes jointly it will mess up my daughter's financial aid for college. She'll graduate high school in June and plans to go in the fall. So, left him message letting him know my concern and that I needed to get some more info. Then he called and we had conflict, then my daughter and him had conflict. He realizes that if we don't file jointly he'll owe very large tax bill. Then, he finally broke down calling our daughter crying. He wanted her to know that the financial situation was very difficult for him and told her to make sure she told me how hard this was for him. She assured him that I already knew. I haven't talked to him since yesterday, so I don't know what's going on now, if anything? I think he's scared shitless right now trying to catch up support payments and now discovering he will owe thousands to IRS, not to mention having to make changes to his tax exemptions to increase tax withholdings which will further reduce his check. He should've thought about all this before now! Talked to Jacqueline Friday and she said that I would hear something from him today, Sunday. She predicted that other woman would move out today. I heard from him Saturday, but I initiated that contact over our taxes. I'm moving forward with recording deed tomorrow and trying to see what I can do with mortgage company to save our home. I'm also filing appeal from our support hearing tomorrow, guess he will receive subphoena for that on Tuesday, could push him right over the edge? I don't know, but I've got to do something.
moneta:
AngelGuided, I really hope everything works out. I know this must be such a difficult time--but him breaking down to your daughter just shows how stressed he is--not only about the finances but EVERYTHING---including all the nagging the other woman must be doing. Hopefully, he will realize all of this is not even worth it!!!
KIKI awwhhh, cleaning is sending out good vibrations! It must feel nice too :)
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