I read with Leanne last August. She was definitely projecting.
I'd asked one simple question. "Why did (insert name), my POI, ghost me?"
She said I'd created a fantasy image of this man so ignored all red flags. And had I opened my eyes, this would not have happened. Wait...so it was my fault that HE ghosted me?! She was blaming me for HIS actions!
What she did not know was that I'd been friends with him for 10+ years, so knew exactly who he was.
I'd gone to her for help with processing a loss.
What I received was blame with an indignant tone of "when will women ever learn."
I was furious.