"I am not the one who said ANYTHING about her saying that just to put him off."
So what? No, you were the one who wrote another long diatribe about how he's not being honest and ddn't follow the psychic's advice and suggestions to "make it work." Real psychic predictions don't work like that, you don't have to make them work. People can do things to change their outcomes, but you can't make something happen if it's not meant to be.
It's funny, you criticize him for pursuing her, then you criticize him for deciding not to pursue her. Maybe something to think about there.
I am not criticizing him for not pursuing her. I said that if decided to not pursue her because he felt she was bipolar and didn't want to be a part of that - then that is ok. He has the right to decide not to pursue her, but don't blame other people for making that choice himself - whether it be a psychic or someone else. All I am saying is he admittedly basically stalked her - when psychics told him not to contact her - or see her or anything. Then HE made the choice not to continue to pursue her. Those were his choices. That is all... Have a nice day.
If the psychics told him to leave her alone, and he decides not to pursue her, exactly how does that choice negate their predictions? You don't see the holes in your own logic here.
UMMM - back when he was contacting her every day and she was ignoring him - he would go to the gym and she would avoid him (yes I paid attention to his posts) they were telling him that if he left her alone she would come back. He went a month without contacting her (or more?) and low and behold SHE CAME BACK - he then posted on here "maybe they were right - she came back"... Then he stopped posting here - shows up a month later to say they were all wrong - he decided to stop pursuing her.
I still haven’t stop pursing her. Everything was great unlit she just randomly text me that she was marry and I should move on. After that she just quickly block me. It been going on like this for a year now. Now she would quickly leave the gym if I show up and she never done that before. All the psychic said it was something meant to be.
Lostsoul, I am not trying to criticize you - I hope you pick that up. I believe in honesty, I also believe that people are human and we make out own choices no matter what - no psychic can change that. So I believe in holding myself accountable for my actions and that others should do the same. If we are constantly reading with "psychics" it is our own responsibility to own that. NO not all (and I would say most) are legit. There are a lot of scammers out there (unfortunately) but be sure to own your own part in all of this... I am someone who has been stalked (I am not saying you are stalking her - but you have admitted to being overly pushy with her) I have also had the needy, clingy guys and it has pushed me to the point of telling them that I am otherwise involved (whether with a boyfriend or married) just to get them to leave me alone.
My advice to you, let her go (for now) - if it is meant to be - it will be. I truly believe that. Go and live your life, maybe get some therapy - because it sounds as though you are really hurting from this process. You did once say she was going through a divorce, most people going through divorce are not ready for anything more than casual for a long time after (especially if she was cheated on or abused). You also said she was 10 (?) years younger than you? She may lack the maturity to be ready for anything with you. But through therapy, maybe you can get to a point where you are happy within yourself to move on completely with her, or be ok with the way she pops in and out of your life.
I hope that helps.