Just wanted to comment about readers who tell you your POI is interested or in love but you receive contradictory messages from the POI.... I started calling keen readers a few years back regarding a man I was head over heels for. I kept getting mixed messages from him and it drove me nuts. I needed answers. One day he would be all into me, next day he would ghost me. WTF right? How many men do this, by the way. And why. It really made me stabby lol
So one day I was at his house and things were PERFECT. We sat holding hands on his couch and cuddling and he talked of blending our families and happily ever after. After years of wanting to hear this from him I felt it was finally happening.
Literally the next day....he starts avoiding me again. Gets distant. I am thinking I did something wrong. WTF did I do. A friend talked to him and just to see what he would say to this, she tells him she wants to sign me up for online dating so I can meet someone great. She was trying to see if he would get upset, protest, tell her no don't do it....instead....he gave her advice on which sites to use and which to stay away from otherwise I might meet some real creeps.
Wow, right?
So there I go, calling up keen readers asking wtf is this dude's problem. Why so hot and cold. Did I do something. What WAS it.
Every single one I talked to said he loves me, he fears I will reject him, he can't handle it, he has been rejected badly and it hurts and he would rather not go there again then have his heart smashed to bits.
Now, you may say....typical response of a keen reader....the fear of rejection card....the he loves you, he is just scared and has childhood trauma card....
But I am telling you. They were right. I remember psychic4truthteller said to me "He is scared does not realize you wont hurt him and he runs. I really finds him idiot"....I never forgot the finds him idiot part lol
Fast forward a year. He and I are chatting and decide to get together for coffee and small talk. What I assumed would be small talk, that is. He decided to unload on me all his feelings that day. EVERYTHING the readers told me he felt, he actually did say to me. He wanted us to move in together, get married, white picket fence, whole nine yards....but he was so afraid I would tire of him and leave him for someone else as it had happened to him twice in the past. He said he had never felt like this for anyone. The readers told me this as well. I tried to calm him, enlighten him, make him know I would never hurt him. I was so in love with him and I would never do it.
We left it that we would begin our relationship, he kissed me goodbye, said he would text me the next day.
And? Next day he avoided me like the plague. Ran away again.
SOrry this is so long. If you amde it this far, kudos lol All I am trying to say is, just because someone is acting one way, does not mean they are feeling it. Guys are a strange breed. They have been socialized to be strong and to be masculine and not show weakness. What shows weakness more than a man with a broken heart. He will protect his heart at all costs.
Obviously, not all guys who show disinterest are actually interested. What I am saying is, if a reader, an empath, picks up on the feelings, you can believe it if it is a true empath. Especially if you are given clues to their gifts....for example I had a reader physically describe someone in question. I had a reader, Lollie, NAIL the personalities of the people to a T. She described my little daughter as being very gifted spiritually....my daughter is a medium and very highly evolved.
Right now I have a dude who is pulling the same crap. I had a readed Blessed One nail his personality last night. Knew IMMEDIATELY things that happened to him as a child without me saying anything but it is because of these unresolved issues, he is unable to love me fully and even express it.
One thing I think we all need to do is listen to our own intuitions as well. Learn to hone it. I have been doing this. I am trying to reawaken my own abilities.
Sending lots of love to everyone here. We all want love, success, happiness, health...I pray we all find that.