Hi Penny -
As a newbie, I recommend one thing - quit reading while you are ahead.
I have been in a situation with my ex for about 8 months now, and have been reading about it since. I do NOT have an addictive personality whatsoever, but I got so sucked in to readings that it really didn't do much good for my mental health or my bank account.
However, I must say this - I AM one of the lucky ones here. Predictions from some of my most trusted advisors about my ex returning have been panning out in time frames predicted, just like they said it would. Week by week I am seeing new developments in my situation that make me a true believer in the gift of psychics. HOWEVER - my intuition ALWAYS told me that this would happen. I knew it could not be over between my ex and I due to the circumstances behind our split - we still cared deeply about one another, but the timing in both of our lives got in the way.
My point is that looking back, I feel as if I didn't need a psychic to tell me what would happen. I did not trust my own intuition because I was so fearful of the unknown. As human beings, we unfortunately have to deal with the unknown every single day. Although some psychics can clear up some of the hazy stuff ahead (as they have most definitely done for me), there are billions of humans on this planet that get through break ups, move forward, or have old loves or new loves come back into their lives without the use of a psychic. Ask yourself about your situation - why did you break up? how were you treated? is this worth it? what can you do for YOU in the meantime? - because I promise you this - clinging onto a read is the worst thing to do. Even with all of the reads I got, I lived my life and continued to keep on keepin' on - and before I knew it, I got what I asked for.
Although I am one of the few lucky ones on this forum - there are many people that weren't so lucky. At the end of the day, everyone connects differently and everyone has their own experiences.
The only times my readings about this situation did not come to pass were when I acted rashly, reached out to my ex before it was time, pushing her away further. I clinged so hard to the outcome in fear of it NOT happening, that I actually prolonged it. My best advice is to let things be - if you WERE given a time frame that resonates with you, just continue to do you without clinging to the timeline. Actions WE make after the knowledge of a read can actually mess up our outcomes - many people here can attest to that.
I am not saying I completely stopped reading - however, I was reading almost every day at one point with multiple advisors, and now I am down to 1 time every 10-14 days with only a select few advisors. Pretty soon I am hoping to stop reading altogether, and I am working hard towards that goal. As a newbie, I highly recommend not falling down the rabbit hole. Its a hard hole to climb out of.