Baypark... maybe you have better dead relatives than us. lol
Who knows! The only difference in my reading was I didn't ask for anything specific. I do that with new readers to see what they pick up. They udually pick up the POI coming back and then I may ask something specific.
My grandmother has been gone 20 years and we weren't that close so it's odd she comes through but when Joy told me to not focus and dwell on past issues she hit the nail on the head and I hadn't said a word at that point. Then she brought up the car. She just really worked for me. Very rare someone actually works for me.