Thanks for your insight into your experience mo, it helps put the different outcomes we see in readings into perspective.
This was on Advisor Trishula's page:
"PLEASE NOTE: Tarot Readings are NOT set in stone. They will tell you what is LIKELY to happen if you remain on the same path, continue with the same types of actions, into the future. Any changes in YOUR behavior change the outcomes of the situation.....Tarot Readings are a living, breathing, metaphysical wonder and change as your actions change.'
Looks like she also thinks it is possible to create a new personal reality by changing your present vibration.