ahhh these questions are always hard - we honestly should stop asking eachother these because everyones situation and connections are different tbh lol
Yeah, bottom line.
Having said that, Mslisam is usually right about emotional/mental patterns behavior of the person. Only thing is she may be looking at someones feelings in 2008 or 2019..and not in the present.
Phoenix Burning can be good, she goes off the rails with emotional stuff and can be dead wrong in general.
Havent tried the other two.