Women will for sure. Men are another story from what I'm told. My BFF is a therapist and she said regularly she sees men choose the wrong path out of fear of strong feelings for a woman. It's hard for us to understand because we'd crawl over broken glass, under barbed wire for the strongest love.
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This is interesting. Every reader I've talked to says the POI has very strong feelings for me but he IS with another woman. Initially, they said it was the "easier" way, she was easy, no commitment etc. It wasn't an emotional connection with them, just fun. I do know he didn't want a relationship, BUT he's been with this lady for almost 7 months. Recently all have said he's wanting it to be done, but is comfortable and doesn't want to deal with the drama. Even Judi's when channelling him, said that he's just waiting for it to end but its easy and she gives him everything he wants so it's hard to leave, but he doesn't have a strong connection with her. WTF? WHY would someone stay with someone for such a long time if they aren't happy? PLUS, he sounds like a complete asshole and jerk for stringing her along like he is. She must have feelings for him as well and she's a freaking idiot for thinking she's going to change him and he's going fall for her. He's basically using her which all of the readers have said. SO, because of his strong feelings for me and his fear and lack of want for commitment, he's with this woman he doesn't care for, drives him crazy, they fight all the time and makes him unhappy. I would have to say that's a freaking nut case in the biggest way. He needs therapy LOL