yes stargazer im glad you see the same stuff i do. its good, but its not you whole life or meant to keep you from making your own choices. thats where people get that reader dependent thing.
they are not in charge. you are. make a change now. i see how people can be there, but for years? its time to change.
readers have no control you do, dont call them if u dont like it. seems obsessive and weird. glad i caught onto it soon enough and saw who helped and who did not. sometimes u just need someone to talk to that isnt someone you know. thats healing too.
thanks stargazer you are a good person.