I want to say something that has been on my mind lately which is how god/universe and destiny come to play.
My favorite psychic on CP Dave who i have read with for over 2 years (when me and my girl where together and apart) and he has always read the big picture outcome for us. I believe thats the kinda reader he is. He gets near future predictions only if he can really see it.
He as always seen so many wonderful things with us in our future every single time i have read with him (which is every few months cause he is $130 for 10 mins) but i remember asking him one day "can i be with somebody else have all of this...can i choose someone else?"
He laughed and said "of course you can. God gave you free will to choose what you want. You could very well choose to be with someone else....however i dont see you chossing someone else. No matter what you decide your girl is come to you wanting to be with you and have a relationship and future with you. Its your choice to decide. God will create the opportunity no matter what. I see and know you choosing your girl. The love and connection with you two is very strong.
This sat with me because i really believe whats meant to be will be in your life no matter what. And that if you feel that and let it be it will happen at the perfect time when god/universe see it. But there are some people who say you chosse everything in your life. Which I feel you do have say so in your life. I also feel like when something is meant to be the opportunity will present itself!