actually now that i think about it....IF some miracle happens and my POI reaches out by July 28th, that will be exactly 2 weeks from when I called Sue and still be in the month of July, therefore she'd be correct.....but i don't hold anyone to timing anymore lol
If you like your poi that much just reach out to him that you want him back.
Please do not try to advise me on what to do, I mean that in the nicest way possible. You have NO IDEA how much history there is and the crap he and I have gone through. There is way too much water under the bridge, and I actually did send him a message last month (after 11 months of silence) to let him know i was moving across the country (which he pretended he didn't know but I knew he did) and to mail back his clothing. It is not that simple to just let someone know you want them back after so much time has passed by and there is a lot of stuff to process. Also, has your own advice been working for you?.....I don't know...We all have different situations here. And I never said I wanted him back....perhaps I just wanted to know he cared. I may never get that and have actually started asking advisors about new people coming into my life. Its been a difficult process, but I am trying to open my heart and mind to new experiences.