I am normally never on but I do lurk from time to time, and sign in occasionally to respond to my PM's, but I wanted to take the time and post to you.
Just by lurking, it seems as though you are constantly getting conflicting readings in terms of your POI. From years of experience reading with psychics whether it be on the phone or my locals, I have learned that psychics tend to pick up on energy at the moment only, and very seldom can see into the future. Michelle and Josh may have picked up on different emotions from him and then drawn a conclusion based on those emotions, as opposed to Sarah. I haven't read with either so I can't comment on their accuracy.
However, thats not the reason why I decided to post. In my humble opinion, I think you should stop dwelling on the fact that the readers are telling you two different things but rather work on letting go, and leaving it up to the universe. Go with what you believe will happen, and what your intuition tells you and release your energy to the universe. In the meantime, work on yourself and your own happiness with or without your POI. Easier said than done, I know..I went through everything, but its the only way.
I went through hell and back with my POI before I realized I had enough. I cut him off, took a break from readings, focused on my degree at the time and my business, and lived my life..he was dating someone else during this period as well. Eventually he came back, but thats a whole different story. He was an emotionally unstable man as well, and those type of men will never put you first, unless you, yourself put YOU first. Let your POI go through his growing period or whatever he needs to do, but you need to put it out there that you are living your life, and are a strong, confident and beautiful woman who doesn't care whether he comes back or not.
I am wishing you the best of luck.
Brilliant post! I'm a somewhat long time member and I lurk but don't post as I did in the past, especially when a former member attacked me when I was trying to be helpful. No thanks!
But I felt compelled to respond to this post to concur with new_hope's words.
I'm a long time caller of psychics and I also went through tremendous hell with a former love. While certain readers got his emotional state accurate, they were pretty much dead wrong for the future. (long term anyways)
I should add that any situation that involves major life lessons defies all psychic takes in terms of how or when or if there will be a re-connection or reconciliation.
And whether or you not you believe in 'soul' connections, if it's something that your soul/Higher Self wants for your personal growth (which is what it does want), then it's pretty much beyond human control. These are my thoughts and personal experiences. I don't speak for other experiences so please, no flame wars.
I re-read some journal entries from way back when I was going this emotional angst and pain and I realize how much time and energy I wasted on a man who doesn't deserve me.
He had a lot of deep seated emotional and psychological issues (and probably still does to this day as I really don't think he has done anything to help himself heal) and it was always him first.
I finally had enough and put myself first.
No, he hasn't returned and while I feel deep down that he will one day, I no longer want to be with him. His immaturity and self-centredness make him a poor candidate for a relationship.
He has been with someone for the past years and no reader picked up on this btw.
But yes, new_hope is right in that if/when a former love returns, it's because you've let go and no longer have the need for that person to be in your life. And yes, as much as being apart hurts, it is often times necessary for personal growth and to gain a better perspective. I know I have.
I know of one young woman who pined for a lost love for several years. Finally she decided that it no longer mattered whether or not she ever heard from this person.
Boom! He contacts her after all these years to tell her how much he has missed her, etc.
So yes, letting go and not depending on someone for your happiness is key.
Give yourself that love because you all deserve it!