I was in the same situation - being told not to reach out, when I had always been the one to do it in the past. So eventually I DID reach out - I did not get a reply (he has never not replied to my messages before...) I panicked and contacted one of the best and most accurate readers I had spoken to, and he told me that now I had reached out, it would put back communication with my POI and I would not hear from him for longer period of time. I deeply regret it. My experience is unique to me obviously.. but I thought i would share incase it helps you..