This is why I don’t read with empaths.
Like a persons feelings can change in a split second throughout the day!
I feel for the most part you can tell how a person feels about you based on how they treat you.
I know there are situations that isnt the case (maybe for beta males/females) but yeah
I don't understand how everyone can claim she's accurate on feelings when that's something you can never verify. Hell, men tell you they love you when they don't at all. So is she telling everyone their POI loves them, and because men are liars and have probably said so themselves, she comes out as accurate?
She told me so much about how my POI loves me, misses me, wants to be with me, thinks of me, etc....(1 year since he ghosted).
The fact of the matter is, he's the only one who lives in a certain state that I know, and I have a website for my photography and for family members who are old and abroad that don't do social media, and he's NEVER clicked on it. NEVER. No one from that state. Because I can see tracking with states/cities/device information and he's not smart enough to even know what a VPN is.
So how the hell would that be true? All the top hitters have strung me along for so long, and fed fairy tales.
If someone is *scared* to reach out and confess it is one thing. But if they care so much about someone, they'd certainly check out what they're up to and see pictures of them. After all, that is mostly anonymous, and no, he's not even smart enough to know websites track people to actually avoid clicking.
So personally, I am truly baffled with how everyone easily claims empaths as accurate when you can't open someone's heart up to see--actions say it all, especially anonymous actions.
I haven't read with Zadalia personally so cannot comment on her, but I have tried QoC, KnowingAngel, JUDI and other empaths in the UK and they couldn't have gotten the present more inaccurate. I agree with this statement, I was given "he's scared to commit" when in reality - he didn't give a shit about me. He told me from his own mouth he didn't love me at all and to move on, he blocked me and never checked up on me or tried to reach out. He has been with someone since last autumn and still is.
I'm not speaking for others as I'm sure empaths have been pretty good for them, but to date for me personally - I have never found an accurate empath. I've found out the info was so wrong, once dangerously wrong where one empath (not mentioned on this board) read someone's picture and told me that deep down the typical "he was a genuine guy and had a bad childhood" blah blah. She read him as lovely, sweet, has potential (who doesn't have potential?!). The guy was very abusive and people around him confirmed this to me, he had substance issues, had a rough past involving prison and he took advantage of me and others. He owed me money and the empath said he felt guilt and would pay me back, that he genuinely is a great guy deep down. He never paid me back even when I reminded him and I emailed the empath to get no response off of them. It's lucky I didn't believe her all along as he could have dipped in and out manipulating and using me, and we actually had a heated discussion in the reading because she was adamant he was a good guy, and he really did take advantage to me if anyone knew the full story. My friends said he did, I knew he did, the people around him said he is unpleasant and abusive, controlling. He wouldn't allow his ex outside when he worked away, wouldn't let her wear makeup or wear certain clothes and I didn't know him long but he was controlling with me too in a very short space. This empath defended his behaviour which is totally not on and disgusting.
Before anyone asks, I went to this reader as I was doing work with her at the time and I felt stupid falling for this guy as being genuine - I fully expected her to throw the book at him for who he was and was gobsmacked when she was really defending him. She called an ex of mine abusive, a player and narcissistic for much less than this other guy did and I've realised that this malarkey is very dangerous.
