Good luck! I like her, but she's not for everyone. She's one of the very few that I could validate. Not everyone connects with her though. She's at least ethical.
Just got off the phone - it was approximately a 30 minute reading and conversation. I'm going to need to process things....I'm a thinker and I may over analyze things to a fault.
She validated THE MOST out of everyone I've read with so far. I probably read with 50+ by now.
So, at first she said No reconciliation, but then through the reading she said she will come back around, she will try to come back. So, I'm not quite sure how to interpret that. Does she mean my POI will want to be with me again or does it mean my POI will just come around just for the hell of it? I'm not sure about you all, but I don't just hang around my exes for the hell of it. There would either need to be a real substantive reason as to why I needed to be around them OR I'd want to be with them romantically. To be around them just for funsies wouldn't happen.
She gave me a 6 and told me that in the next 2 months I should expect a contact/reach out. So I'm prepared for that.
It's just odd to me that straight out of the gate she said no reconciliation but then into the reading she picked up on the fact she will be back around and will want to be with me again. She said she kept getting fragments and nothing was cohesive. In other words my POI is very confused.
Maybe she was picking up no reconciliation because she might be sensing I won't want anything to do with the POI then?
Has anyone had her say no reconciliation but the POI would still come back around and make contact? What were your outcomes? Can someone help me understand this please?
well that sounds like it's in line with what Lady P said to you the other day. She could very well be "back" into your life just to get on the even ground but it doesn't mean she will want to reconcile with you and have a relationship again. I think that's the warning Lady P gave you - how she will be very confused. I think you are overthinking it.
LOL! I over think everything. True very similar to Lady P in many ways. But Lady P said
there would be a struggle for my POI and I to get on an even level. She talked about that in terms of agreeing on things, like a relationship. She said it would take time. If she comes back just to be friends and has no expectations then I don't see what could possibly be the struggle with that. You know what I mean? And I don't think that would take time. She could tell me she's sorry and she wants to be friends, and a that point it's really either a yes or no answer from my side.
If I say yes, what sort of struggle would there be? Also, if I say no, that's pretty clear I don't want her in my life, so again, what would the struggle be between us? I think an internal struggle between us would entail both os us being emotionally invested into something more than a platonic relationship.
If LP did not say something about a struggle to get on an even playing field between us then I would tend to side more with the fact that she would just be coming back into my life just to be friends or just be a part of my life with no intention of reconciliation. But then again, you have read with her and so have others, so your analysis may be correct, whereas mine may be flawed (due to bias).
What is clear to me now is I believe my POI will attempt to come back into my life, for an unknown reason at this time. I think at some point it will be clear to me what that reason is, whether it be she wants to maintain a friendship, she wants to try things again, or she just wants forgiveness for what she did, there is some reason why she will be back in my life. It also seems as though there will be some type of struggle between us. If I had no interest in being with her I just don't see any struggle happening because I wouldn't invest my energy into things. Maybe they don't see a full reconciliation, maybe they see pieces of it. Maybe they are seeing her showing back up into my life to "feel things out" and as we get closer we struggle to make things work in a relationship? Hence, no reconciliation......Who knows!
Both Lady P and Zadalia warned me, however. So, I'm going to use my best judgement so I don't get burnt again. Zadalia said she didn't think I would have the discipline to keep the boundaries I set when my POI comes back into the picture. She said my POI is good at manipulating me by using her woman assets.
So TRUE!So at this point I'm going to let the two months pass and just see what happens when she does reach out. Zadalia told me not to talk to her if I am in a relationship with another woman because my POI would simply want to be with me just because I would be with another woman.
Z said "She will find a way to get in touch with you" because at this time it would be pretty difficult for my POI to get in touch with me.
So, another prediction to add to the growing list ZADALIA_PREDICTION_1 contact in two months....as always I will keep the community updated if things unfold and after these next two months have passed.
