I find that so scary, the whole spellwork thing.
It is nothing like what you are imagining. I go to a Bible based Church and find nothing wrong with it.
The short of it is: You light a red candle with both names on it, if you have a photo or a personal object put it next to the candle, play the guided meditation, see a golden light, hold hands, speak to them and release them with love. Feeling the emotion is very important, as is letting everything go when you are done. Forget about the person and go on with your life and your day.