Ladies, I found this update to be very uplifting and inspirational. Baypark: I wish you a peace of mind and commend you for letting go and moving on with your life. I know how difficult it can be. I completely agree that guys are really not that complicated. If they want you, they will pursue you and if they don't, they are not worth your time and effort. That is a rule to live by. I have decided to let go someone who is obviously confused about what he wants. I'm moving on and working on myself both spiritually, emotionally and professionally. I encourage those of you in these kind of emotional situations to meditate, do yoga, see a therapist, spend time with your friends and find ways to grow as a person. I recently completed a psychic detox period (I spend 5 weeks with no psychic readings)and I noticed my cravings and urges are gone. I'm still allowing myself to do calls every once in a while but only to get updates on my academic and career questions. Sorry for the long post and I thank you guys for posting your experiences.