@bluebelle It could be because things have not happened yet or because people gave up.
@sooshi I spoke to Judi two days ago and she picked up on while chanelleing my ex he said that when he said to me about not loving or finding me attractive anymore that he didn't mean it and he felt tpressured to say something and he's having a bad summer and it's not me its him. He said that he didn't notice a whole month went by without contact and he doesn't want me to be mad with him. Judi said he will contact in 1 or two weeks most likely when he is not panicky anymore and he is relaxed