I so hear this...the best thing, and this is just my opinion, is to try your best to move on with your life...chill with the readings and if things happen with him great..if not, then I am sure someone better is around the corner..
It's hard to do I know, I am in the same boat and I just took a big step today in disconnecting myself from the person, I feel it's healthier for my sanity to move on and stop with this because if I go by what this person is showing me, and not what the readings are saying, it's crystal clear about his intentions (which are none). and even though I do feel that he feels more than he's letting on, at the end of the day I have to go by what he's doing and that is what I plan on doing.