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optx888:
My regular readers are Nina, Kinsey, London, Anasela, Kelli, and recently I have read with Seha and Jacqualine.

Nina and Kinsey are the most direct and have been pretty correct with time frames.

But all others are all saying the same thing in their own way.  They all see me and my ex together. 

The big time frames are about now.

I spoke with Kinsey the end of April…and she told me to just be patient.  She gave me the same big picture time frame and she gave me some information that made sense and made me feel better and hopeful.  But she told me I would hear from him the next week…and I did…but she told me that he wouldn’t respond to anything I send him…even if I were to send him an email that someone in my family died…but that he will slowly come around.  She said it is nothing personal and to not take it personally.  But she did see him reaching out for my Birthday when I spoke to her about it on March 22nd.

I spoke to Nina on Wednesday because I was just having a lot of anxiety and a really bad week…I asked Nina for an update.  The time frames basically stayed the same…But I just had to ask her if I would hear from him for my birthday (even though it was just eh next day) and she said yes…but it would be very simple and basic.  Just a “Happy Birthday” and for me to understand that it may feel like almost nothing on my end…but its huge on his end.

In March…he emailed me to ask me when my birthday was.  I told him and asked why…he said because he is terrible with dates and I remembered his birthday and he didn’t want to forget mine.

My Birthday came and went and I did not hear from him.

I sent a stupid email today about a hockey announcement (to see if he would respond…even if it’s a “yeah I know thanks”) and I haven’t heard anything back.

But not sending me a “Happy Birthday” is just not good a good sign and I now just can’t see any hope.

I’m hurt and I’m mad and I ‘m disappointed.

Do I still hang onto hope…or is this a sign for me to let go…that this is the end ???

sammiepoo:
Maybe he was thinking about it and then just didnt do it. Thats the thing you got to remember about love and relationship predictions, the psychic goes by what the person is currently feeling. He may have been thinking about your birthday and wanting to give you a call or send an email but if just didnt happen. I am sorry hope things work out better for you, maybe you should try not to think of him for a bit, I know its hard, but just try to focus on you, then you might hear something from him. Dont let your whole life and world revolve around him, focus on you. And happy belated birthday!! :)

Kareena:
greengrix he is terrible with dates like you said. He probably forgot, remembered until it was too late and is/was embarassed. If he did not want to wish you he would not have made the effort to contact you in the first place.  If you really want a response, send a humorous text about his forgetful habit. You will be able to gauge from his response how he feels about this whole thing.

positivethoughts:
green - My SM didn't acknowledge my b-day either but happen to contact me a few days after (we talk via video chat a lot) and I said to him - do I look older - and he acted like he didn't know it was my b-day. Guys are so weird with this stuff. I don't have advise but wanted to sympathize. I know how much it hurts. Seriously, WTF????

happy birthday! mine was in March also. Pisces rule  :)

cj:
not to sound like a b*tch but Im sorry a Birthday is a BiG DEAL! I would be hurt too. Im sorry you have to go through this. And I would not advise you to call him. No matter what anyone says you will still feel like your not a priority bc he did ask about our birthday and still forgot! wth!

I was crying on my bday. And even though I got to go out with my ex we were still ex's and I still felt like crap. I felt like I was pretending to be happy with him for one night when I really wasn't bc of the whole ordeal. Its just disheartening.

Just keep focusing on your life..and try not to let him hurt you (even though its hard) :'( :'(

Im sorry I know how you feel. It feels like you're trying so hard while they are the ones who doesnt try @ all. When you feel like  that no psychic can make it right..just pull back and find other things to focus on. When he comes back just be cold...forgetting your bday is not ok and he needs to make up for it...dont let him get away with not making you feel special bc you are!

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