Oh no Presence...I'm so sorry it turned out that way.
Seems like it might be a common theme for some of us that a guy changed or disappeared overnight. That's what happened in my case too. It's very difficult to make sense out of it when that happens. Please don't feel like an idiot. It is natural to want answers and to want to understand what happened.
I'm glad he finally manned up and told you the truth...but wow it just sounds so shitty to me that he was doing this behind your back and flaked out with no explanation. Maybe you are better off to be rid of him!
The weird thing was, about an hour before he called me, I talked to Melody Marie who told me he'd be coming back into my life and would want to get back together. (Sorry tired, I know you really like her...)
No need to apologize for that, ever...these are the kinds of things I want to hear and think we all need to know here. I will never get upset when a reader I like turns out to be wrong for someone else. Melody has been wrong a few times for me too. Overall she has been more accurate for me than other readers, but when it comes to final outcomes, who knows...so many things haven't finished panning out for me yet.
Sometimes I feel like maybe no one can really predict the ultimate outcome...but then when a reader does get it right, that's really awesome. I'm just sorry that it turned out the way it did for you.