So I tried scott again. Two months ago he said my ex wants his freedom and not a relationship. Today he said my ex feels the relationship is alot of work and likes being around me and cares about me but feels finance and interpersonal things are in the way a lot and doesnt think this can work long term.WELL my ex is fucking idiot if that is how he really feels I paid for everything when we became long distance I did my best to make things work I was the one picking up my car driving 4 hours back and forth to see him and spending my money.
I asked scott what he meant by interpersonal and he said my ex goes through days when he wants to be social and days when he doesn't .Seems to be true becuase he felt that while being long distance it was okay to go days without talking to me or even seeing i'm alive. Yes I could reach out to him which I always do but sometimes its great knowing that your bf wants to talk to you or shows he cares by giving you a call.
Scott said that this relationship has been back and forth due to my ex not wanting to let go but feeling like things cant work.Sott said that we both have the desire to want to change things and make it better. But he believes my ex needs to find his purpose and in life and he wants so right now he cant do a serious relationsip.
Scott said it will go back and forth for a couple of more months but he feels I am going to outgrow my ex.
WELL guys seems like Sincerity is wrong about seeing us getting married lol haha.
Scott most likely can be the reader that will be the most right about the future.
I don't think my ex will ever change and stop his bs and creating things in his head.AT THE END of the day life is hard! Anything you wan t in life is hard.He appears to work very hard on his career and money but when it comes to working hard on our relationship I'm just not worth it to him I'm the baggage even though I support him 24/7 helping him nextwork before he disappered on me I almost paid 700 dollars for a personal trainer conference for him to go to so he can network I was asking him which days he can go and he was taking a while to let me know.
Well makes sense he knew he was going to toss me to side of the street like a stray dog.smh