I know this is easier said than done, but please try not to worry over whether it will happen by a certain date.
In my experience, over 9 years! the vast majority of these contact predictions do not come true. That doesn't mean it will never happen. But I think something when they see it happening, they interpret as coming much sooner than it will.
This guy might have some growing up to do before you would truly even want to hear from him again.