So, I've had my first reading with her this morning, and I have to be honest, I was really impressed. Ive become increasingly skeptical of readers later, whether it be overall cynicism or just this site in general, haha but she was really good! I began by asking her a straight forward "what do you see between Danny and me" and she said thoughts feelings actions, Danny where are you at?! and the first thing she picked up was blocking, she said he's blocked his heart off and it appears as if we've had a conflict, but no actual conflict had taken place (this is true). she said our situation is more of a "can I take the next step" (also true) she pulled the chariot, and saw that within 6-7 days we'll be completely past the issues and that he's going to start placing tremendous effort into us. she said something that was quite interesting, a handful of readers had told me that he was talking to someone else briefly (only for attention they said) or that there was a friend interfering, but she clarified something and it was like an epiphany! she said I see a third party, but wait, not another woman or friend... its work.. she's in the way and causing major conflict for you two (100% TRUE!!!) she said that im the queen of swords, that im ready not playing games, etc, and that he thinks of me as the one for him but he's afraid he's unable to meet my needs right now, that he's not ready (true) she pulled the knight of cups she said its an offer of love and pulled the devil she saw that he's a bit controlling/insecure (also true) she pulled the 10 of pentacles, 6 of cups, lovers and said that he plans on marrying me and he will rise to the occasion she said fear manipulates him and causes him to cause issues in the relationship to try to dictate the pace (I agree with this and he's told me himself that he's afraid, so I know she's on point).
she said I can see he's very difficult, sensitive, and often picks fights when he's afraid so lets see what your best course of action is.. she said that he will "double down if we argue" (these are his exact words to be honest) and the best thing I can do is be unavailable and pull back when he presents that energy, she described it as a child having a temper tantrum and said he'll sort it out quickly and on his own, as long as I do not feed into the energy. (these are also things that have happened int he past as well) she said im very independent and pulled the judgement card and said that this will work out in my favor. then she asked would I be happy if we got married (an interesting question, but I like it) and she said we will def. be happy that we're crazy about each other and I just need to manage him better right now and things will be smooth sailing later (the manage him part, Ive been told by my go to reader and she's right) she said that when he misbehaves if I display a super happy demeanor it will make him snap out of it bc it establishes that we're equals she cautioned me that he's possessive of me and I just need to manifest happiness, and its right around the corner for us. we were supposed to have a "talk" about us on Sunday (after a recently HORRIFIC week) and I asked her how that's going to play out she said I think the talk will be sooner than you think, and its going to be long winded, direct, but will yield a positive result. literally as soon as I got off the phone with her, he called and we talked for 2 hours and it went well. later that evening he called me and was being sweet as pie and we have plans to spend tomorrow night together..
overall, she nailed the present situation, nailed our dynamics, his personality, and even gave really good advice. I also really appreciated the perspective of the "third party" being work, not a friend, woman, etc. with that clairity, everything made perfect sense! I also know how much work has been wedging between us, because we discussed it yesterday. def. recommend!!