I read with her yesterday and learned more than I have from any other reading in terms of what my POI is thinking and feeling and the reasons behind the obstacles. For my situation based on my time with her, it really is right now about him being genuinely overwhelmed and feeling like I deserve better and confusion about what he thinks I want (that I want to get remarried, a white picket fence scenario basically) and that he cant give that to me right now.
So... it isn’t that he doesn’t have genuine attraction for me... at least that’s how it came up. So.... this is good to know in terms of how to approach things when he eventually reaches out. Which I really think he will. I’m hoping it will be that it’s more in line with other readers in terms of future though.
I just need to decide what I want based on when he reaches out. I hope it’s that he waits until he feels more ready ... I don’t want to get remarried any time soon. I don’t want a white picket fence. I think I need to figure out how to make him understand that .... if / when he contacts me.
Waiting to see...
Some readers that are predictors have said we’ll just be friends only. Some have left it more open ended.
But I really really got a lot out of Judis insight and am thankful I spoke with her.