Hi....
Thanks....Yes, while this at one time could have been a very costly bender, I am grateful this time it wasn't...lol.
I received conflicting readings regarding this situation. Like I said after our 1st date, I chatted with Heather...And I was shocked when something she said, he leter confirmed. However, her prediction so to speak, well, was only part right. Then I did try her after, since I was shocked from the one a few months before... on Tuesday, and she said this guy cared about me and had feelings and didn't want to loose me. But that he wanted to see other people. As the reading went on, it got worse....wanting his cake and eating it too...Something about an ex around him that he wasn't really into, but wasn't finished with. I was like HUH? But she kept saying how he didn't want to loose me. The very next day he broke it off. It was totally out of the blue. As two nights before, he didn't want me to leave, kept trying to make me stay over....(?) Maybe he's a professional player? lol...
I will never know if it's because of someone else. I asked him, and he said no. Granted, I'm not saying I believe him.
I don't want to reveal too much information....But he's got health issues. He just received a diagnosis, while not life threating, it very well could be without proper care and life changes... (he's got a ton of other stuff too)..When I read with Trish, she immediately picked up on something that he was upset about. Said a ton of stuff that applied to my situation. And that that was the reason for breaking it off.
Spoke with Empathic Ellen....Was so on point, it was wow.....Said he didn't feel like he had anything to "offer me" was kicking himself...However....How do I really know what the reason is? I need to go by what he said. And that alone. I read with her again this time as she was maybe one or two of the readers who didn't see a positive outcome with the last guy...And she was right.
People break up every day. Sometimes, no matter how great one person sees it, the other one doesn't. I will say, I think he just wasn't feeling it anymore. No matter how thick he laid things on...till the bitter end though, hence my confusion. That's just him. I will take the timing into consideration....right before Valentine's Day....why spend that day with someone you don't see it going anywhere with? Why put that on it, when the other person can misconstrue the meaning?
I decided to just go with that. He just wasn't into anymore, and realized I was into it, so why continue? Yeah he cared, but not "like that"....They pick up on that he did, and apply that to now.
Trouble is, he was up my ass all the time....calling texting, cooking me dinner....blah blah blah....but that's just his way. I took it for more. And in my defense of being blindsided....I fell for it. LOL...Yeah, i told him to back it up on more than one occasion...Told him of my trust issues...He assured me he would only be truthful...always told me of conversations he had with his mom, son about me..All his kids knew about me.....But whatever....I need to take what he said, that he wasn't feeling anything more than friendship....and move on from it. Doesn't matter that he laid it on thick till the day before....
I can't let myself be sucked into the calling game, waiting for a call that will never ever come. Nope, I decided to cry it out, put my big girl panties on, and try to get over it!!!!
Thanks for letting me vent!!!!
Be Well Everyone!!!
