I'm tempted to give her my personal phone number.
No, obviously that's probably not a good idea judging from the posts taking place on here... but I think alot of us can relate to psychics leading us down that hopeful state only to see a different picture in real life. The main thing that keeps people in denial, is the fact that alot of those psychics are right about some things, and so the justification comes in that they are right about the other things they say which include the very things we want to hear.
I think you should have a heart to heart with this person. Obviously people can live their lives in denial, and that person could be "distracting himself" but I was told something very important a long time ago, and this was actually told to me by someone who was very good friends with the person I was in love with. I pulled this person aside at a party and told him that his friend was denying his feelings for me and I could still tell he cared about me and was "using" this other girl... HE RESPONDED WITH: "I'm not sure, but even if that's true, he's CHOOSING to be with someone else right now."
The choice is theirs, we can't hold on for things which might never happen. Hopefully she can find some closure. It took me about four and a half years to get over the person I initially started calling about.
BTW thanks diva, haha, hope the move is going well