Hello everyone, I just want to share something with you all, I know the relationship issues are extremely hard to handle, and they involve our deepest emotions. However it is very wrong to make your life all about the other person, to call psychics and spend money to get same predictions over and over again. In the end we all live just for ourselves and we have to be fulfilled with being ourselves. If anyone counts on any other person to make their life better, it usually will be a failure. I learned it the hard way, being in process of getting divorce, it was a blessing in disguise though because I have grown so much now.
To everyone struggling I recommend a book "Breaking the chain of low self-esteem" by Marilyn J Sorensen, PhD
And this book is not just about being insecure, although I think that everyone has insecurities, bigger or smaller.
It has so much written about relationships and what people unconsciously do to sabotage their own relationship, also there is an important chapter about being alone vs. being lonely. I think this book would definitely broaden your horizons and make you pay attention to your actions to have a fulfilling life and enjoy a healthy relationship. If it means anything to you I am a Registered Nurse, psychology is one of my specialties, I do know what I'm talking about, and I really recommend you take a look at it.