Somnus,
It was because there were 2 other people, and possibly more, in chat in addition to me and kicking at the time that I felt it necessary to address the post kicking made late last night. I don't want anyone to misconstrue my good intentions for bad. I don't want anyone to misconstrue kicking's post, although, clearly two have already. That is why it was necessary for me to comment.
And as far as someone else's intent in chat, well let me leave this post with the following and perhaps you will make your own decision.
I do not appreciate being told that I am as Bella was before she "saw the light" and that it is wrong for me to have hope. More importantly, I do not appreciate some stranger who knows NOTHING of my case and situation telling me in a chat with other members that I have
the complete opposite of what is being told to me happening before my very eyes....and yet I am believing the reader and not what I see? or what is actually happening?...and that it is my prerogative to wait it out.She knows nothing of my case. She does not know what is actually happening, and she certainly does not know that I am waiting for anything.
Sorry, but to me when speaking in this manner, it is hard not to have the impression that one person is all-knowing, all-seeing and that the other is not.
And finally, and then this matter can be put to bed, do you see the hypocrisy in one member, that has been here a long time admonishing another member in chat for having "HOPE" while at the same time the long-time member admits that although they feel psychics are not to be trusted, they, themselves, come back to this forum on a repeated basis, for what? - oh, for HOPE. She is hoping that it happens for someone.
In my opinion, that is an absurd double standard.