For those of us that have been in relationships that didn't work out and have decided to move on,
this article (links to baggage reclaim) is pretty good at explaining why it's wasteful to sit around thinking about what you could have done, what you should have done, how you could have kept things from going south. I found it tremendously helpful in my current situation, and it (and other articles like it) have kept me from opening up a new Keen account (though, to be fair, I did cheat a little and open a Bitwine account to chat with one of the twins for the first time. Another "he'll be done with her by the end of February!" reading! Ugh...why do I do this to myself?)
As I've mentioned in another thread, I've also been keeping a lot of
Tibetan bowls and chimes playing in the background to help keep myself calm and grounded. (Links to YouTube.)
Does anyone else have any articles, videos, blogs, or media they'd like to share to help with the process of moving on and letting go?