Don't crash. It'll just make things awkward for everyone if he intentionally didn't invite you. If you're going to see him tomorrow, just casually ask him about it. I'm not clear on when this party is, but it can be as simple as, "Oh, I heard you were having a party on [date] for your graduation. Congratulations - I hope it goes well." This will give him the chance, if he meant to invite you, to clarify that you're invited, and it will also give both of you the chance that, if he didn't intend to invite you, to convey and accept that message in the least awkward way possible for both of you. If he has no intention of inviting you, the why doesn't matter. The why, in that circumstance, is obvious (however painful) - he doesn't see you as a close enough friend.
Sorry if that sounds harsh, but if it keeps you from calling a psychic or stressing any further, it's worth it. The worst thing that will happen is your feelings will get hurt. If that happens, you will eventually heal and move on and be just fine. But better to lance the sore than allow it to fester.
well... i apologize, but am going to jump this thread, because getting reading has messed with my head and i dont know what to make of this:
i wasn't invited to a party from this guy whom no matter how nice I've been he's still a jerk. we use to be close friends. And i dont know if it was on purpose that i wasn't invited, or just forgetful. When i first found out about this party, my heart sank and i cried because he invited my obvious close friends it really seemed off. My first instinct was to call a psychic but being broke and no money made this not an option. My next desperate instinct was to call him and confront him... however every time I've tried to talk to him he becomes quite distant and adds more awkward strain. Plus, calling someone at 10 pm on a friday night complaining that you weren't invited to their party only might justify their actions... maybe, Im not thinking clearly. What do i want from this situation? is it the party or is about him getting to him like me again as his close friend.- because i cant change his mind on he feels about something.
i then talked to some friends and all agree if he did that on purpose that it was a dick move.
some friends suggested just confront him and ask. others said just crash the party and see what he does as a dare on his actions.
...i dunno. i was heartbroken about this all day. And my god, feeling everything the panic burning sensation in my throat, my heart dropping on the horror of his actions, was too much to take in. however, this is the feeling i avoid that sends me running to call a psychic. It was the worst battle of the night, i couldn't sleep, but also felt aware that if i call its just going to mess with my head more. well, after a day and restless night, i did contact two psychics. and i feel it messed with my head even more. one said just tell him it hurt you, and overall it was a mistake he meant to invite me. the other said no, it was on purpose, but he doesn't hate me. the urge to contact more advisors is there... but it will mess with my head.
today, i woke up feeling like, "really?, a party? there are more important things right now than not being invited to a party." my inner voice is saying yes, it hurts but stop caring so much what this guy thinks of me and letting him make me miserable. and yes, its a going away party/graduation/but if he really didn't invite me thats his karma best not to stand next to him when it happens.
so... i see him tomorrow, i can confront him let him know it bothers me. or... i can crash his party but not confront him, but for now i want to set it aside so i can let my heart rest from crying.
