It could be that the reader was wrong. It could be that the guy is one of
those that either doesn't know what he wants or knows exactly what he wants but doesn't want the commitment that goes along with it. It could really be a lot of things, but I have to say...for the most part, the best relationships I've been in haven't required me to do the chasing or wait around. Even now, as frustrating as my boyfriend is because he's not the most...romantic or emotional, and he's busy, he still puts out the effort. If he wants you, he'll come get you.
So I guess it could be a little bit of column A and a little bit of column B, but I guess the real question is, did you do what the reader said? And what exactly was the reader's advice?
I meant that she saw the potential of us working out long term, but said it would take effort on my part. I suppose that is positive, but it definitely wasn't a fairy-tale.
What do you mean by the reading 2 months ago was neither positive nor negative? So, I have had a semi-strange situation, and I know this group would be able to help me sort it out - or at least have a valid opinion.
Two months ago, I read with someone about my relationship and received neither a positive nor negative reading. It was simply if this is what you want, here is how to get it. Last month, I read with the person again, and it was a completely different reading: this relationship has no future.
How do you handle having readings with such different outcomes?